Traditional marriage in Ghana is a beautiful union of families, but according to life coach Douglas Owusu Boateng, the rising cost of “the list” has become a major barrier for young men. In a viral video shared on Tuesday, December 16, 2025, Boateng questioned the inclusion of intimate and excessive items that place a heavy financial burden on aspiring grooms.
The “Unusual” Items Under Fire:
Boateng specifically called out the recent trend of families demanding bulk quantities of intimate apparel He argued that these items do not reflect the traditional or spiritual essence of marriage.
- Excessive Intimates: Boateng questioned why some lists demand “six dozen panties” or multiple dozens of underwear.
- Irrelevant Additions: He urged families to reconsider items like expensive schnapps if they aren’t actually being used for their traditional purpose (appellations.
Cost of Living:
With the average cost of a wedding in Ghana reaching nearly GHS 250,000 in 2025, Boateng emphasized that inflated dowry lists only worsen the economic strain on young couples.
Impact on Marriage Rates in Ghana:
The life coach warned that if these lists are not “pruned,” fewer young men will be able to settle down Data suggests that many couples are now resorting to “micro-weddings” or skipping traditional ceremonies entirely due to debt concerns.
Mental Health:
Financial pressure from high dowry demands can lead to pre-marital stress and resentment.
Delayed Unions:
Many men are forced to wait until their late 30s to marry simply to save up for “the list.”
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